Your Story Matters: Break Free from Imposter Syndrome
Ever felt like external voices are dictating your writing journey?
You're not alone. It's easy for the noise of the world – societal expectations, peer pressure, the daunting publishing industry – to sneak into our minds, planting seeds of doubt.
But here's the thing: those voices? They don't get to tell your story unless you give them permission to.
Many authors find themselves trapped in 'the paralysis of perpetual writing.'
Driven by fear of external judgment and internalized as imposter syndrome, this cycle stops many great stories from seeing the light of day.
The irony? The longer we stay in this loop, the more we feed the very doubts we're trying to escape.
Breaking free from this cycle is crucial.
Every story tucked away because we're afraid to share it, afraid of being judged, afraid of being wrong, afraid of failure, is a missed connection with a reader who's waiting for our words.
So, how do we break free?
#1 Start by writing for an audience, not just yourself
Writing with an audience in mind shifts your perspective from personal expression to communication. It encourages you to consider how your words will be received, understood, and valued by others. This doesn’t mean sacrificing your voice or authenticity; rather, it’s about making your writing more accessible and engaging for those who will read it.
#2 Aim for completion over perfection
Aiming for completion means acknowledging that while your work may not be perfect, it is finished. This approach prioritizes progress and allows you to move forward, rather than getting stuck in endless revisions. A completed story with imperfections has more impact than a perfect one that never sees the light of day.
#3 Embrace deadlines
Deadlines are not just arbitrary dates; they are powerful tools for accountability and productivity. They help structure your writing process, providing clear goals and milestones. Adhering to deadlines can prevent procrastination and the endless cycle of revisions, pushing you toward the finish line of your writing project.
#4 Beta readers are your allies, not foes
Beta readers provide invaluable feedback from the perspective of your future audience. They can identify strengths and weaknesses in your manuscript that you might not see yourself. Their insights can help refine your story, making it more compelling and polished. Embrace their feedback as a gift that enhances your work, rather than as criticism.
Image by Dall-E. I was going for "a writer overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome" and instead I got a phoenix giving this woman a head massage. Which I suppose is actually quite inspiring.
Your writing is uniquely yours, and the world needs to hear it.
Build your confidence step by step: share your work in supportive environments, celebrate each small publishing achievement, and embrace positive feedback wholeheartedly.
Stand firm against the tide of other people's opinions. Write your truth.
Confidence blossoms through deliberate action. Take the brave step of sharing your work, be it a paragraph or a page. Let the world see your creativity. Every small accomplishment along this journey is a cause for celebration. Embrace these moments, no matter how trivial they may seem. Every word of encouragement and every sign of appreciation you receive is like a boost of fuel for your writing journey.
This is my poking you (gently, of course) to take that brave step.
Share your stories.
Keep shining, keep writing, and remember, your words have the power to change worlds.
Jocelyn
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My name is Jocelyn.
Story warrior, book lover, day dreamer, gardener, and creative. I help serious writers roll up their sleeves, get their novel ready for publishing, and reach readers. When I’m not elbow-deep in the story trenches, I’m outside world-building in my garden and battling weeds with my three criminal mastermind cats.
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